Family Portrait: Paul's Story

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Bath - 28th January 2004

Name

Organisation

Job Title

Comments

Antoinette Lavelle

Writhlington School

Teacher

Emotionally draining! Felt fully engaged throughout. Emotional experience.

Christine Palacio

Young People's Support Service

Centre Manager

Experiential. Stirs the emotions not just the brain cells. Enables one to be empathic - in order to understand we need to step into other people's shoes - this experience helps one to do just that!

D.C. Kaye Cooke

C.I.D. Avon Police

Child Protection Training Co-ordinator

Challenging, thought provoking, an opportunity to try things out with the next best thing to a "client"!

Det Sergeant Simon Brewin

Child Protection Team

Child Protection Team

Much stronger message, it will stay with me longer. Training with longevity.

Elaine Paget

Youth Offending Team

Somerset Youth Offending Team

Dynamic interactive training of a high standard.

Joe Rooney

Bristol SSD

Social Worker

It kept my attention for the whole duration. Well done!!

Margaret Anne Zaccheo

Barnardo's

Senior Practitioner

It was a different type of learning experience and will not be forgotten in a hurry! Really felt the feelings and remained focussed all day! Experiential, intense, very realistic, well researched, encouraging, safe and exploratory.

Sarah Chitty

Barnardo's

Team Leader

Dynamic, powerful, safe, realistic, experiential, exploratory. Worth it!

Shelley Zagwojska

Social & Housing Services

Social Worker

More dynamic and powerful way to deal with difficult subject matter.

Bexley - 7th May 2004 (Course run by Bexley Area Child Protection Committee)

Name

Organisation

Comments

Ali Ward

Bexley Women's Aid

This intense, dynamic and thought provoking course is relevant to all professionals who work with families, children and young people.

Brenda Green

Bexley Centre For Unemployed

An excellent insight into the effects of domestic violence and sexual abuse on the child and how this manifests itself in adolescence from the perspective of the perpetrator as well as the victim.

Cheryl Metcalf

Children's Placement Service

I will have a greater understanding of children who are placed in foster care who may be the victim and perpetrator of abuse.

Clair Johnson

Bexley Women's Aid

This course was fantastic. Well written and researched. An insightful way to approach a sensitive subject

Ellen Ewen

Bexley Centre For Unemployed

Excellent!

Emma Walsham

West Childcare Unit

Hard hitting, powerful and useful. It will definitely help my practise especially when speaking to young people.

Francis Bloomfield

Bexley Centre For Unemployed

Very informative - thought provoking - excellent

Gwen Rumble

SOVA Mentor

Extremely thought provoking insight into the trauma of a young victim of abuse.

Janice Wilson

Leaving Care Team

Extremely powerful. Cannot help but learn from this course.

Jenny Griffiths

Queen Mary's Hospital

Excellent!

Kay Gardner

West Childcare Team

An excellent, well thought out and put together training course.

Lorraine Webster

YPSS Bexley

A moving experience, which challenged me and offered me much to consider.

Louise Friend

SOVA

Totally engrossing. Excellent way to learn and put difficult points across.

M. Ruckledge

West Childcare Team

Very informative and interesting

Nicola Parrick

YPSS

Emotive, very valuable training. Excellent, very real.

Pat Ball

Cruse Volunteer Counsellor

This was an excellent day in every way. Challenging, interesting, engaging and thought provoking. A wonderful and much needed antidote to tabloid hype and thoughtless hysteria.

Pat Marshall

YPSS Howbury

An excellent training day. Great to work with so many other agencies. Very gripping, very real issues for young people. Powerful performances.

Pauline MacDonald

SOVA Young People's Project

Absolutely essential for anyone working with young people. So true to life.Hard hitting, to the point and powerful.

Stuart Maddock

CPT - Metropolitan Police

A powerful experience.

Victor Zaal

West Childcare Unit

Innovative, interactive, challenging, excellent

Brighton - 7th June 2004

 

Name

Job Title

Organisation

Comments

Anna MacFarlane

Social Worker

Youth Offending Team

Thought provoking, powerful and encouraging - it helps you see the situation from so many points of view

Jan Russell

Youth Justice Worker

Youth Offending Team

It differs from any other training course I have attended in a really positive way. It was stimulating, challenging and gave thoughts and feelings to the character role that is invaluable. It is a learning experience second to none.

Jim Park

Social Worker

Brighton & Hove Youth Offending Team

Brilliantly acted - a great insight into thoughts and feelings - good training for less experienced workers.

Jo Bates

Social Worker

Brighton & Hove Youth Offending Team

An excellent, innovative and creative style of training.

Katie Henjes

Practitioner

Chrysalis Team

Don't attend if you want a peaceful ride!

Lisa Pugh

Youth Justice Worker

Brighton & Hove Youth Offending Team

The whole day was excellent, powerful and thought provoking.

Richard Hunter

Personal Advisor

NCH Slough Leaving Care Team

You feel the emotions and pain of Paul and his family which gives you a better understanding of why abuse can occur.

Rosie German

Senior Practitioner

Chrysalis Team

Good mix of learning tools and able to contribute through group working and hear others questions as well. Interesting, powerful and very useful to our work with young people with sexually problematic behaviour.

Sara Radford

Student Social Worker

Brighton & Hove Youth Offending Team

Very sparky! Holds attention from beginning to end. Workshops provide a spontaneous and good humoured way of rehearsing questions and techniques. Unique training experience.

Sue Hill

Social Worker

Youth Offending Team

Very interactive. Kept you interested right up to the evaluation sheet!

Cardiff - 28th September 2004

Name

Organisation

Job Title

Comments

Susan Howells

Caerphilly Social Services

Family Support Worker

Today was more powerful than other training and the workshops are a great way to involve all participants.

Anon

Rhondda Cynon Taff Social Services

Social Worker

An excellent non intimidating way of getting a difficult topic considered whilst providing an opportunity to learn

Eleri Nicholas

Lliw Valley Womens Aid

Children's Worker

Very real. Watching it being acted made me look at it as a real situation and think of how I would react in similar situations rather than it just being a case study or a story on paper.

Sarah O'Brien

Miskin Project

Senior Practitioner

Paul's Story made the situation and characters real. Much more so than any other course I have been on

Jay Goulding

Rhondda Cynon Taff Social Services

Social Worker

Engages people on different levels and provides an opportunity to open up different perspectives and gain more understanding.

Barbara Williams - Board

Miskin Project

Social Worker

Creative - Insightful - Hard hitting - Useful - Informative - Fantastic!

Sue Webber

Rhondda Cynon Taff Social Services

Social Worker

Superb acting made this very real and emotional experience allowing a worker to appreciate the young persons position and other family members. Be prepared for a rollercoaster of emotions.

Cath Morris

Caerphilly Social Services

Family Centre Manager

An opportunity to reflect on previous practice and be more pro-active in changing current practice

Fiona Campbell

Swansea Women's Aid

Resettlement Worker

Very effective, more emotional, thought provoking - gave entertainment value but stressed severity of young person abuse. Brilliant!

Angela Hart

Rhondda Cynon Taff Social Services

Assistant Team Manager

A very moving experience that makes you experience what the young person is feeling and going through. It's as if at times you are inside the young person's head feeling those emotions and reactions.

Seren Davies

Swansea Women's Aid

Young Women's Worker

Dynamic, emotive, impressive and moving

Sarah Morgan

Neath Women's Aid

Refuge Child Co-ordinator

Really feel Paul's emotions

Nadja Jones

Clinical Service Manager

Rubicon

Excellent value for money. This is a powerful and provoking learning tool that will get you thinking about your practice and reaffirm and redirect. Excellent stuff!

Susannah Hollett

Neath Women's Aid

Child & Youth Co-ordinator

I felt that I learnt so much but that I didn't do any work! My head wasn't aching from thinking! A rare opportunity to get inside the heads of victim and abuser and family members.

Harlow - 13th January 2005(Course run by Harlow Womens Aid)

Name

Organisation

Job Title

Comments

Rebecca Complin

Womens Aid - Harlow

Move on and outreach admin assistant

Empowering, informative and decisive. A must see.

Anne Keyes

Harlow & Broxbourne Womens Aid

Floating Support

Pauls Story felt real and didn't hold anything back.

Jackie Marsh

Womens Aid - Harlow

Young Peoples Support Worker

An insightful and very powerful story which makes you more aware

Victoria Pestell

Harlow & Broxbourne Womens Aid

AFSW

Very effective and felt very real

Susan King

Womens Aid - Harlow

Chair of Trustees

Felt totally absorbed, very realistic, tough and challenging

Ann Marie Sweetland

Harlow & Broxbourne Womens Aid

Floating Support - Safer Communities

Differs because it is acted out - really brings it home to you - lots of detail too.

Angie Sayer

Epping Forest District Council

Homelessness Prevention Officer

Very powerful and thought provoking - much better than watching a video or listening to a speaker

Alison Ims

Essex Police

Police Officer - DVLO

Powerful, eye opener and the reality

Donna Wall

Epping Forest District Council

Homelessness Prevention Officer

Strong, direct, truthful story that makes you think in more depth about abuse and how it affects peoples lives.

Carol Foreman

Harlow PCT

Nursery Nurse

Helps you to understand the reasons why young people abuse - not just sexual deviants.

Barbara Barker

Womens Aid - Harlow

Family Worker

Never been on training quite as painful and effective in its delivery. Excellent to experience.

Clare Campbell

Harlow PCT

School Nurse

The interactive sections where the actors did what we suggested were very useful.

Collette

Womens Aid - Harlow

Floating Support

10 out of 10!

Sally Panrucner

Womens Aid - Harlow

Family Support Worker

Entertaining, powerful, thought provoking, interesting

Sam Randall

Harlow & Broxbourne Womens Aid

Assistant Family Support Worker

It showed me that these young people are put in a box and are not listened to alot of the time. Emotional and helps you see it from the young persons point of view.

Joanne Clinton

Harlow & Broxbourne Womens Aid

Assistant Family Support Worker

Insight into sexual abuse, emotional, helps you to understand where the young people are coming from and the kind of things we can do to help them through the experience.

Visual learning is more helpful to understand and grasp the situation.

Gill Johnson

Essex Police

DVLO

Much more in depth than any other theatre group ever attended.

Karin Edme

Womens Aid - Harlow

Child Psychologist

It plunges you directly into trying to deal with strong emotions together with keeping up with efficient decision making and thinking. Striking and mind gripping.

Julie Holliland

Womens Aid - Harlow

Assistant Family Support Worker

The performance gives a good insight into real situations including domestic violence.

Maria Yiangou

Womens Aid - Harlow

Domestic Violence Children's Advocate

A frightening authentic example of real life experiences - the reality of the situation is quite overwhelming. A fantastic educational resource and a real eye opener.

S. Chambers

Womens Aid - Harlow

Assistant Family Support Worker

It is real life. An eye opening story of abuse and it's effects.

Hannah Stanley

Chelmsford Women's Aid

Child Support Worker

It was hard to hear but is real and is happening. Excellent insight into a case of sexual abuse.

Sharon Ounzain

Chelmsford Women's Aid

Refuge Worker

Superb acting and knowledge of the subject matter made the whole experience very real. A real insight into the affects of sexual abuse through the eyes of the abuser and the victim.

Alison Austin

Chelmsford Women's Aid

Outreach Worker

Incredibly useful way of putting across what is an emotive and at times taboo subject.

Jill Turner

Chelmsford Women's Aid

Refuge Worker

Interesting and powerful

Isabel Cox

Womens Aid - Harlow

Assistant Family Support Worker

Very impressionable and affective - a good way of imprinting it in ones mind. Excellent way to express and show sexual behaviour difficulties within the childs mind and the family situations.

Elaine Hickley

SVHA

Homelessness Officer

I felt I was involved in the situation and gained a real feeling of how Paul felt.

Alain Shears

Harlow & Broxbourne Womens Aid

Assistant Director (Outreach)

Excellent training and a true learning experience

Frances Salmon

Harlow PCT

Health Visitor

A powerful insight into sexual abuse

Julia Brown

Womens Aid - Harlow

Trustee

This is very practical, thought provoking and hits all your emotions. Highly recommended.

Pamela Young

Basildon Women's Refuge

Service Development Manager

Powerful, emotional and real.

Diana O'Brien

Basildon Women's Aid

Outreach Worker

This workshop was very powerful and visual and I felt I was a part of Paul's Story. The participation in giving advice and the questions we wanted answers to was excellent.

Joyce Sweeney

Essex County Council

Partnership Co-ordinator

More training in this very emotive format is needed for mutli-agency settings that deliver services to children, young people and their families. This is very powerful stuff and will be remembered for a very long time. Hard hitting, thought provoking and practice changing.

Hull - 27th September 2006(Course run by Hull Local Safeguarding Children's Board)

Name

Organisation

Job Title

Comments

Alex Carling

Hull Women's Aid

Playworker

It is a very emotive, realistic and thought provking play - very well conducted.

Anwen Jones

East Area Family Resource Centre

Social Worker

I feel that I have been able to understand and learn from this type of learning experience a lot better than "normal" courses. Brill!

Barbara Carlill

Ashwell Pupil Referral Unit

Teaching Assistant

I believed what I was hearing and I didn't lose interest once which quite often happens after lunch on other courses.

By performing the story it made it much more interesting, powerful and gave better understanding than watching a video, powerpoint or lecturer.

Barry Inzani

Eastern Hull PCT

Student Health Visitor - Registered Nurse

Very audience interactive - good to see various thoughts challenged and not just accepted within the "box".

Claire Lee

Looked After Children Team

Health Co-ordinator

Creative, dynamic, powerful, goes "through you" real and emotive.

Clare Harrison

East Area Family Resource Centre

Social Worker

This kind of learning experience is more helpful than others because the characters become real. There are many opportunities to empathise, put self in characters "shoes" and look at the options. Excellent - gained a lot from the day - definitely recommend to colleagues!

Diane Sanders

Social Services

Family Support Worker

Unforgettable and showed great insight.

Debbie Rice

Young Peoples Support Service

Personal Adviser

It was very disturbing but realistic, not a training course to miss.

Elaine O'Malley

Children and Families Disability Team

Family Support Worker

Powerful and in your face

Elizabeth Butterick

Youth Offending Team

Senior Youth Justice Officer

Thought provoking, reality check, how damaging families can be.

Gemma Rute

Humberside Police

Police Officer - Domestic Violence Unit

A thoroughly enjoyable and unique learning/training course especially as based on a true story. Outlines a multitude of issues within a family.

Harriet Benson

Social Services

Family Support Worker

This is certainly thought provoking. It is a very good way of undertaking a training session as it is very real and visually powerful. I wish more courses were designed like this one.

Ian Bolton

RAPP

Development Worker

Thought provoking emotional rollercoaster through Paul's life and experiences. Fantastic!!

Jane Davies

Social Services

Family Placement Officer

Very useful way to learn as you watch the story unfold. Very powerful.

Jane Wilson

West Hull PCT

Health Visitor

A powerful presentation with little in the way of instruction. I spent much of the time reflecting on my professionalism, my approach, knowledge base etc. Terrific. Don't miss it!

J. Tarbottom

Children and Family Services

Senior Care Officer

Very intense, brings the information to the front - continually challenging thought throughout the day.

Karen Milton

Hull PCT

Health Visitor

It gives you a visual and very emotive picture of events. A very emotional and thought provoking story

Karina Allen

Looked After Children's Team

Health Co-ordinator

It made me feel uncomfortable at times and the shouting made me feel unnerved. If that made me feel uncomfortable, how must it feel for a child/victim of abuse.

Leigh Latham

West Hull PCT

Team Leader

The emotional impact is much greater than other courses. Powerful.

Lindsey Leonard

Health and Social Care

Children Homes Manager

A must for all practitioners within the field of social care. Should be put on the induction training for all new staff.

Liz Railton

Social Services

Senior Social Worker

The whole experience made me think about how professionals can get it wrong. Thought provoking.

Lorna Morris

Hull and East Riding Health Authority

Designated Nurse For Looked After Children

Riveting and thought provoking. It was excellent.

Louise Savage

Child and Adolescent Primary Mental Health Team

Primary Mental Health Worker

Very emotive, realistic and not text book! Makes workers feel supported, gives understanding and is motivating!

Lyn Brown

Hull Women's Aid

Children's Worker

Very realistic and powerful.

Lynn Arber

Health

Health Visitor

Raised awareness of the impact of abuse on the whole family. Very realistic.

Marie Holmes

Social Services

Social Worker

This is much more powerful and seems very real looking at the horrifying impact abuse has on the whole family. Powerful and moving.

Matt Sutcliffe

Social Services

Senior Case Officer

Effective, entertaining, stimulating, powerful and above all memorable! If you want to learn about young people who abuse in a way that changes your practice. Go to this!

Pam Johnson

Social Services

Family Placement Officer

The style of "Paul's Story" brough it alive. Highly recommend this training especially for student social workers.

Pat Panitz

Hull SSD

Supervising Social Worker

Far more visual, thought provoking and upsetting. This is real life. Not theories or models.

Paul Browning

Stepney Primary School

Headteacher - Child Protection Co-ordinator

Emotionally stimulating and thought provoking. A welcome release/alternative to a barrage of theory.

Philippa Boynton

West Hull PCT

Health Visitor

Realistic, thought provoking, makes you feel as if you are living the experience.

Richard West

YPSS

Personal Adviser

Forget your pre-conceptions of what abuse is - Paul's Story will open your eyes.

Sally Stork

Hull PCT

Health Visitor Homeless Health Team

The style encourages spontaneous, thoughtful interaction in a "safe environment". Brilliantly organised and challenging to your practice of working with young people.

Sam Heppenstall

AB Lodge

Family Placement Worker/Service Enquiry Team Social Worker

Brilliant - Keeps you interested, involved and makes you reflect on your own practice.

Sandra Waites

Health

Health Visitor

A well presented though provoking day which allows time for ideas to be shared.

Sarah Matindale

The Lemon Tree Childrens Centre

Parent and Child Support Worker

The drama is so powerful that you can't possibly go away not challenged in some way. I was gripped throughout. Unique.

Silvia Madrid

Children and Family Services - Residential

Children's Home Manager

Interactive, real, keeps the participants interest throughout the day.

Stephen Houghton

Health and Social Care Residential Services

Children's Home Manager

Powerful, engaging and real. Would benefit all workers.

Steve Blackledge

Social Services

Social Worker

Visual, just not about sitting and discussing issues.

Steve Scott

Hull Parks and Gardens

Customer Services Manager

Brilliantly acted, good balance of interactive parts. Moving, challenging and strangely - almost cleansing! Keep up the good work.

Therese Murray

Hull PCT

Health Visitor

Powerful, emotive and got the messages about working with families across in a different way.

Tracey Brown

Social Services

Senior Care Officer

"Paul's Story" seemed real because it was done in a way that expressed deep feelings and anger.

Wendy Meyer

Eastern Hull PCT

Community Nursery Nurse

Very emotional and thought provoking around the issues of sexual abuse.

Yvonne Kinghorn

YPSS

Personal Adviser Additional Needs

The story is alive rather than a paper written case study. A real portrayal of the struggle families and young people go through to be heard. It demistifies the role of the professional and helps above all to never stop working with hope.

Hull - 14th December 2006(Course run by Hull Local Safeguarding Children's Board)

Name

Organisation

Job Title

Comments

Rob Rooney

Hull Social Services

Social Worker

Well acted and well researched - I can see this from my own experience. It graphically hammers home some lessons which have to be absorbed by workers in the field

Salas Abrahams

East Area Family Resource Centre

Social Worker

It gave a vision that young abusers can have underlying problems to deal with and that is the reason for their behaviour

Angela Loughlin

Sutton Place Safe Centre

Deputy Manager

Paul's Story is inspiring and would promote workers insight when working with young people in crisis. It demonstrates that there is a massive resource in ourselves.

Tina Nicholls

Riverside Family Resource Centre

Family Support Worker

Very emotional and realistic; good group work enabled me to hear others opinions and learn from others experiences

Gail Thornton

YPSS - Stonefield House

Counsellor

Amazing, thought provoking and a great learning experience

Jo Bonds

Stepwise, SSD

Specialist Social Worker

A completely different learning experience - the best training I've been on in ages

Glenn Hughes

Social Services

Personal Advisor

Absolutely brilliant, I was mesmerised. Powerful, gripping, interesting and well worth attending. Thanks for a great training day!!

Mark Carpenter

Humberside Police

Neighbourhood Officer

Go to it! It is excellent!

Wendy Sheriff

East Hull Family Resource Centre

Social Worker

Wow! Very emotive. Made me cry.

Tina Lowther

Social Services

Family Support Worker

The performance was powerful and gripping - Making me want to learn more about this young person.

Lucy Burnham

Thanet Primary School

Trainee Teacher (GTP)

The mothers insights were particularly useful. Well-planned. Interesting to listen to various viewpoints about the situation

Vicky Burrell

Social Services

Social Worker

A very powerful story portrayed in a sensitive and informative way. A truly spectacular way of gaining information

Sue Moore

Social Services

Social Worker

Excellent and essential to all workers in this field!

Tom Waltham

Estcourt Primary School

Trainee Teacher

It was exciting, tiring and extremely emotional but incredibly useful to watch and take part in. A truly wonderful, exciting and deeply emotional journey.

Siobhan Larkman

Youth Offending Team

Parenting Officer

What a brilliant day - Over 15 years I have gone on numerous courses but never have they conveyed such a powerful message in such a professional excellent way.

Julie White

Francis Askew Primary School

Trainee Teacher

A realistic approach to a common real life situation

Pete Hills

YPSS

Social Worker

Much more provocative and thought provoking. Demands a response and messages are easier to retain with style of learning. Excellent, appropriate, relevant, insighful, really useful and intense.

Danielle Robilliard

Elgar Road Childrens Home

Care Officer

Was great to see the two sides - the workers and the family. Very realistic and thought provoking - a must for anyone working with young people/children

Janet Thompson

Elgar Road Childrens Home

Senior Care Officer

We see "Paul" every day - It makes me wonder if we help - maybe now we can do it a bit better.

Ann High

Elgar Road Childrens Home

Care Officer

Powerful drama.

Vicky Smith

Kinloss Garth Childrens Home

Care Officer

Very good acting, very moving and enjoyable

Lucy Gibbins

Riverside FRC

Social Worker

The way in which the course is facilitated assists you to focus on your practice. Emotive, reflective, empowering, thought provoking.

Maria Spence

Young Peoples Support Service

Personal Adviser

A safe environment that you can use to explore how you as a practitioner would start to work with such a complicated situation. - Excellent!!

Michelle Colrein

Riverside FRC

Social Worker

Shock factor, reality check, in your face experience!

Gina Mattinson

Social Services

Personal Adviser

Powerful explosive training course. Well done. Excellenet performances.

Sue Phillips

Thanet Primary

Trainee Teacher

A very heart rending experience. An excellent way of relaying information and empowering one to self evaluate your own judgements and attitudes towards such things.

Jean Myers

Supported Lodgings

Very true to life.

Norman Fletcher

Social Services

Senior Social Worker

Thought provoking experience that helps to motivate your work

Suzanne Pinder

Hull Fostering Team

Social Worker

It provokes a much more emotional response, the impact of which means better learning/insight.

Jo Pearson

Wyke FRC

Team Manager

Very powerful - puts points over in a very "real" way

Christine Bloor

Social Services

Family Support Worker

It is never boring - By being more visual and actual it is impressed deeper and therefore more memorable. The interaction is excellent and thought provoking.

Rhonda Crossland

Fostering Team Hull

Foster Carer

Very strong and emotional

Elaine Nifton

Hull Initiative

Senior Social Worker

A useful insight into the dilemmas for different family members. Gives a better impact in terms of emotional content and family dynamics.

Maria Ffoulkes

Supported Lodgings YPSS

Supported Accommodation Worker

Fantastic!

Sheila Beney

YPSS

Personal Adviser

This learning experience is very powerful, thought provoking, emotive and emotional.

DC 1853 Shaw

Humberside Police

Family Protection Team

It wasn't information overload, it was a powerful portrayal of emotions and a sharing of ideas

Louise Taylor - Deville

Childrens and Young Peoples Services

Childrens Home Manager

It was real! - The story comes to life, presented with the emotions and feelings. I was totally engaged throughout. Absolutely brilliant!!

Rob Hocking

Humberside Police Vulnerable Witness Training

Trainer

In the classroom you are told how it is, in Paul's Story you are part of it!

Janet Dean

Social Services YPSS

Personal Adviser

The performance was excellent and very powerful!

Wayne Rowson

Families and Friends Service

Social Worker

It makes such a difference to see sensitive issues being performed in this manner. The message is far stronger than words alone.

Hilary Clark

Young People's Supported Lodgings

Carer

Compelling, excellent acting, flexible and innovative.

Glenis Penrose

East Area FRC

Social Worker

Excellent! It makes you more aware regarding the underlying problems of abuse.

Jo Blacker

Francis Askew Primary School

Trainee Teacher

Powerful real life performance, giving us the chance to interact with the story and put our questions to the characters

Adele Mitchell

Riverside FRC

Social Worker

Realistic and emotionally charged which gives more emphasis to the story/training

Rosalind Spencer

YPSS

Supported Accommodation Worker

Graphic, upsetting, but made me face sexual abuse from different angles. If you need to get a deeper understanding of sexual abuse by being able to face the reality and prepare to be shocked.

Claire Hedges

YPSS

Supported Accommodation Worker

Very emotive - be prepared!

Karen Bailey

Children and Families Social Services

Senior Care Officer

It was fantastic, made you listen, I was totally enthralled throughout. Brilliant, eye opening, funny, sad, emotional and thought provoking.

Jackie Henry

Children and Families Social Services

Senior Care Officer

Thoroughly emotional and thought provoking experience

Trev Elvin

Police

Risk Management

Wonderful emotive portrayal of a difficult subject.

Linda Bonner

Children and Young Persons Services

Social Worker

Lively, emotional, shocking, informative

Liverpool - 29th June 2004

Name

Organisation

Job Title

Comments

Ali McDonald

Wirral Women's & Children's Aid

Child Development Worker

A good chance to explore together rather than be talked at.

Barbara Kelly

Barnardos

Social Worker

Plenty of information delivered in a dynamic and thought provoking way. Useful to look at my practice through the eyes of a young person.

Connie Rachael

Tameside YOT

Case Manager

The training does not "teach you information", but reminds you of the devastating impact of sex offending - brings it back to a personal level, has an emotional impact, made abuse seem "real".

Darren Johnson

St Helens MBC

Residential Social Worker

Terrific use of time. Excellent training tool. Powerful in your face approach, which puts you in the driving seat.

Denise Edwards

Flintshire Neighbourhood Watch

Training and Development Officer

Real. Gets you to take notice. Stops individuals going off on their own soap box!

Marcell Booth

Aintree Hospital NHS Trust

Sister

Powerful and thought provoking performance. Very useful to interact with other agencies.

Alison McCaldon

Connexions

Personal Advisor

A unique piece of art and without a doubt exceptional value for money! A once in a life time experience but an experience that will influence your life!

Faran Ashraf

Aintree Hospital NHS Trust

Sister

A realistic, powerful and moving story of the effects of sexual abuse. Thought provoking and interesting throughout the day.

Fiona Dulson

Connexions

Personal Advisor

Excellent performance - very useful day. Gives you the opportunity to reflect on your own working practice. Very useful that the play looks at both an "abuser" and an abused. Often training is focussed on either a victim or the perpetrator, giving you a one-sided viewpoint.

Geoffrey Owen

St Helens MBC

Residential Social Worker

The story is extremely realistic and could be a typical example of abuse by various family members which can escalate and lead to awful problems.

Graham Sherwood

St Helens MBC

Senior Residential Social Worker

All of the content was relevant to the setting in which I work. More "hands-on" especially useful to have the opportunity to guide/assist the worker during her interviews/sessions with Paul.

Jeanette Turner

St Helens MBC

Senior Residential Social Worker

Paul's Story brings the experience of sexual abuse by and to young people into sharp focus in the way that reading a case study cannot. It challenges your perception of young people who sexually abuse.

Jonathan Pike

YMCA

Support Worker

Drama is a very effective tool to get across the emotions felt by the young person.

Julie Nixon

Aintree Hospital NHS Trust

Staff Nurse

Excellent. You must attend.

Kate Newman

Flintshire Neighbourhood Watch

Communities First Officer

The theatrical approach held my attention all day (unusual for me!). It is an innovative approach, real and though provoking.

Lindsay Wroe

Halton & Warrington Youth Offending Team

YOT Officer

Provides a depth that's missing from usual chalk/talk courses. Paul's Story brings the subject to life.

Louise Quinn

NSPCC Children's & Young People's Centre

Excellent, the best training event I've been to. You experience what it is like to be each member of the family and the family's worker. Absorbing, thought provoking, has to be experienced.

Mylene Marshall

SWIIS Foster Care

Foster Carer

The performance really brought home the story, especially listening to what is going on in Paul's head. Its hard for the children I work with to articulate like that and it helped me to understand more about them.

Nicola Shanahan

Domestic Violence Team

Domestic Violence Support Worker

One of the best training courses I have been on. An effective tool for people to remember what is being taught. A thought provoking day and far better than being lectured to.

Paul Kelly

Aintree Hospital NHS Trust

Staff Nurse

Paul's Story allows you to think around the process, so it opens your mind and your views.

Rebecca Morgan

Wirral Women's & Children's Aid

Play Worker

Mind blowing!

London - 9th June 2003

Name

Organisation

Job Title

Comments

Adrian Quinn

Manager

Solihull Youth Offending Team

Enables hands on learning by engaging the audience in the process. An engaging learning experience.

Amber Foskett

YOT Officer

Bournemouth & Poole YOT

More realistic view - as opposed to dry reading material. A realistic hard hitting performance.

Brian Hogan

Acting director

Oberstown Boys School

A dynamic hard hitting quality event - A good learning experience

Debbie Taylor

Youth Justice Worker

West Sussex YOT

I don't think I had any concentration lapses. The experience was very powerful and I believe the memories and experience will endure.

Garry Manifold

YOT Officer

Sheffield Youth Offending Team

Provides good insight into the world of the abuser and helps to see how abusers might be helped to take responsibility

Gill Carver

Consultant

Solihull Youth Offending Team

The opportunity to observe, participate and learn in an innovative way. Different from the normal didactic training we receive.

Holly Evans

Head of Care

Branas Isaf Personal Development Centre

Powerful, moving, thought provoking - made me cry!

John Hough

Senior Practitioner

Bexley Youth Offending Team

Challenging, thought provoking

Kelly Brown

Group Co-ordinator

Walsall Youth Offending Service

Powerful and appropriate training that will enable you to both understand issues concerning children who sexually abuse and try out strategies of approach.

Martin Weir

YOT Officer

Thought provoking, electric, intense, emotional and interactive.

Rob Woodcock

Senior Social Worker

Walsall Youth Offending Service

An excellent interactive approach to an issue which workers can bring many barriers to.

Susan Tiernan

YOT Officer

Moving, emotional, powerful and overall excellent.

Timothy Flynn

Young Person's Mental Health Specialist

ART Service - Lewisham

Excellent, powerful, effective, well thought out. It touched my insides. It was less intellectual and more emotional - we have the facts already - this helped interpret those facts.

London - 18th October 2006

Name

Organisation

Job Title

Comments

Melissa Playfair

Newmartin Community Youth Trust

Restorative Justice Worker

Grabs your attention and holds it right to the end! Great!

Yvonne Shaw

South Essex Trust

Specialist Nurse for Child Protection

A visual and realistic representation of the wider and deeper issues relating to sexual abuse regarding victims, perpetrators and how they can become one and the same

Shelly Khaled

Newham YOT

Training and Development

This was like no other course I had been to. Not only were they professional actors, they were also professional workers, that were able to deliver in a unique and impactful way.

Aarunima Bhatnagar

Newham Asian Women's Project

Health Promotion Officer

Excellent experience. An eye opener!

Dave Butterworth

Reading Youth Offending Team

Social Worker

Hard-hitting and powerful. A reminder of the need to focus on the families feelings around the needs of the child

Georgina Knappe

Barnardos Tapestry Project

Project Worker

Really enjoyable interactive programme. Trainers tend to make group members do the hard work. This was a great experience.

Nicole Berry

Torbay Council Children's Services

Family Group Conference Co-ordinator

Paul's Story was incredibly moving from the outset. I was surprised at just how powerful it was and the wide range of emotions demonstrated throughout. It felt real.

Freda Mash

Westminster Children and Community Services

Social Worker

It was presented in a very realistic way which had sharper impact and this created a better way of understanding the perpetrator of abuse, their motivations, their feelings and their own unmet needs.

Jean Chaplin

Social Care Services

Senior Practitioner

Whilst watching the story unfold I have been thinking about how I would respond. In the small groups, directed on task, my thoughts as well as others have developed and agreed upon. An excellent way to learn.

Go along and experience what life might be like and know you had some say in what happend and you helped a little!

Stephanie Yeshurun

Westminster Children and Community Services

Social Worker

Good learning experience. Very moving. Not boring at all. Helps to start a thinking process. Thanks a lot!

Debra Kennedy

Wrexham Borough Council

School Based Youth Work Co-ordinator

Realistic, interesting. The impact of drama enables a deeper understanding rather than just simple statistics dictated on other training events.

Ioanna Mouchtari

Family Welfare Association

Therapeutic Family Worker

Very experiential and a cornerstone in my learning journey.

Diana Hinds

Family Welfare Association

Therapeutic Family Worker

I was worried about attending this session because I thought it would be a difficult subject to address because it was about the abuser, but it has made me more open minded.

Creative, thinking out of the box, effective way of learning

Jo Sawtell

Adolescent Resource Team

Mentoring Co-ordinator and Restorative Justice Worker

Very powerful and very worthwhile. It enabled me to properly engage an actual case of abuse going on.

Kate Brown

Enfield Social Services

Social Work Manager

Powerful, thought provoking and excellent

Berkshire Womens Aid

Worker

It was absolutely brilliant. Excellent actors. It was very upsetting but sexual abuse is! An amazingly real re-enactment. Be prepared to cry and laugh but learn loads.

Berkshire Womens Aid

Worker

It is a dynamic training event that uses non-directed approach and allows you to get involved in the decision making process of where to take intervention. It helps you reflect on different ways of supporting these children. Inspiring, moving, challenging and exceptional!

Michelle Roberts

Enfield Social Services

Social Worker

The trainings is vivid, it gives you the opportunity to look at abuse in a way you may not have experienced before.

Sally Thomas

Specialist Assessment and Therapy Service

Therapeutic Social Worker

Powerful to see the family as a whole.

Angela Atkin

Southend Womens Aid

Childrens Advocate

Paul's Story open your eyes to the topic by making it real and resolving the issues.

Jan Monte-Colombo

Enfield Children's Services

Social Worker

Experiential, visual, emotional, memorable, powerful, excellent!

Carole Gand

South Essex Primary Care Trust

Health Visitor

Makes it real, challenges current/personal thinking, makes you think!

Elaine Jarrett

Adolescent Resource Team

Volunteer/Mentoring Co-ordinator

Very powerful!

Newcastle - 24th February 2004

Name

Organisation

Job Title

Comments

Alaine Robson

Connexions

Keyworker - PAYP

Dynamic and powerful. The interaction and workshops produced more topics to discuss with peers.Powerful and direct. Brilliant!

Andrea Spanner

Foster Care Associates NE

Foster Carer

Gives you a feeling of how powerful the emotions are. A very powerful and moving experience.

Barbara Boydell

Connexions

PAYP Worker

Paul's Story is a dynamic, different method of training which kept me motivated and interested. Because this method is more visual you can put yourself in the characters' position.

Carol Myers

Connexions Tyne and Wear

Personal Adviser

Very real. The way individuals were portrayed was very powerful.

Cath Simpson

Sure Start

Family Resource Worker

A good overview of abuse from each person's perspective.

Cathy Davis

Foster Care Associates NE

Foster Carer

A very real experience. Challenged your thought processes. Good medium which made you feel more part of the process the family was going through. More interactive.

Claire Ault

Gateshead YOT

Youth Offending Team

Paul's Story provided me with additional ideas to enable my team to work more effectively with young people who sexually harm.

It has had more impact, I remained engaged throughout - it felt real rather than abstract.

Paul's Story brings to life the pain, distress and turmoil suffered by young people who sexually abuse. It, unlike some training, remembers to look at the strengths of these young people and their families.

Debra Payne

NSPCC

Children's Services Practitioner

A more whole experience. It felt more real.Innovative, interesting and absorbing.

Elaine White

Connexions T.V.

Practice Development Worker

Has aided understanding and made me think about how I would approach interviewing a young person, taking their feelings more into consideration.

Much more interactive. The acting was very believable and engrossing and allowed us to watch how different strategies can play. No boring power point presentations.

Engrossing, believable, a different experience. A good way to deliver a training course.

Evelyn Dixon

Durham Social Services Dept

Family Worker

Much more visual, holds your interest, draws you into the situation. A very powerful, emotive, thought provoking course. Brilliantly portrayed.

Frances White

Sure Start

Programme Manager

Very interactive which keeps your interest throughout the entire session. Awareness raising particularly the feelings of victims.

Gary Connor

Sex Offender Team

Probation Officer

Excellent and informative. The mix of drama and interaction is a good balance that ensures participation but allows exploration of the issues fully. Overall very powerful.

Gillian Johnson

Stockton Youth Offending Service

Probation Officer

Thought provoking in looking at your own ways of working and relating to young people.

Gloria Sloan

Foster Care Associates NE

Foster Carer

More in depth and interesting.

Jane Horn

NSPCC - Wedgewood Centre

Children's Services Practitioner

Powerful - Emotional - Experiential

Karen Gallagher

Durham County Council

Senior Child Care Co-ordinator

Powerful - Thought provoking. It reminded me to acknowledge my own feelings, be objective and non-judgemental.

Karen Marshall

City of York ACPC

ACPC Training and Development Officer

Engaging, challenging, grabbed me and didn't put me down until time to go! The way in which information was given is excellent. Much easier to engage with material - involves feelings which helps learning to "stick".

Kate Harland

Redcar & Cleveland Women's Aid

Childcare Co-ordinator

Have never attended any training like this - Brill!

Lilyan Edmunds - Brown

Stockton Health & Social Care

Foster Carer

Very realistic. A good insight into the child's thoughts. Useful to hear the mother's outlook and how she dealt with her life.

Marian Allen

Stockton Health & Social Care

Social Worker

Very powerful impact. A way to see how a young person is feeling by hearing it said. NOT for the faint hearted

Michele Collings

Pathways to Work

Project Co-ordinator

More 3D - You felt actors played roles fully. Helps you to remember the full picture.

Neil Ventress

Review & Development Unit

Training & Development Co-ordinator

I have never been to any other training event which was so demanding emotionally!

Paul's Story puts you in touch with the feelings of a young abuser and his mother and demonstrates all the problems of trying to help Paul and his family. A training event unlike any other.

Paul Slight

NSPCC

Social Worker

Very powerful, high impact stuff, appeals directly to the emotions and feelings levels of all parties.

Dynamic, different, definitely up to the mark on raising key issues in relation to this work.

Peter Hollis

Foster Care Associates NE

Foster Carer

More powerfully presented. More life-like and relevant.

Peter Sanderson

Darlington YOT

Youth Offending Service Officer

More graphic, more direct, very effective, very positive.

Phil Stobart

Sunderland Social Services Directorate

Deputy Manager

The learning style is totally different. Excellent - really gets the message home.

Rachel Jamieson

NSPCC

Children's Services Practitioner

Emotive, encouraging, challenging.

Ray Stokes

Connexions Tyne and Wear

Personal Adviser

Excellent, worth-while, thought provoking and enjoyable.

Rosie Hutchinson

Connexions Tyne and Wear

Personal Adviser

It was far more realistic and powerful due to the drama/talents of those delivering it whilst still including the audience as participants. Rivetting from beginning to end.

The most powerful training I have been on. Emotive, informative, thought provoking and compelling. Essential for anyone doing this kind of work.

Stuart Southwick

Connexions Tyne and Wear

Personal Adviser

Very informative, interesting, maintains interest and very involving. Felt part of the session.

My confidence has grown. Everything was useful and of a high quality. Sharing strategies and methods of work helps.

Amazing, interactive and compelling.

Reading - 16th June 2005

Hannah Williams

Southwark YOT

Senior Practitioner - Sexually Aggressive Behaviour

Very powerful....essential for anyone working with sexuallu abusive behaviour

Pete West

Southwark YOT

Early Intervention Worker

Essential training. Much more personal/powerful and though provoking. It maintained my attention all day - quite an achievement!!!

Helen Stanbra

Prince Henrys High School/Worcestershire Sexual Abuse and Rape Support Centre

Counsellor

Very powerful! A fantastic multi - sensory way of understanding the issues surrounding sexual abuse.

Anji Jeffery

NSPCC North Swindon Family Centre

Childrens Services Practitioner

Very powerful. Helped me to look at the full picture.

Julia Worms

Thames Valley Partnership

Close To Home Project Manager

"Stop It Now" Co-ordinator - Thames Valley

Excellent use of dramatic interaction. Powerful use of drama rather than factual "chalk and talk".

Sarah Baron

Reading & Wokingham YOT

Project Worker

An excellent way to learn. Right balance of observation and participation. Superbly acted, hard-hitting, emotive, extremely realistic, totally absorbs you and leaves you to reflect on your own practice.

Jo Partridge

Bracknell Forest YOT

Senior Youth Justice Worker

Really excellent training done in a creative and sensitive way. The first training I can remember where I wasn't watching the clock. The whole approach is useful in dealing with a very difficult subject.

Ushma Patel

Ealing Social Services

ACPC Training & Development Co-ordinator

A fantastic learning experience that has such a "real" feel to it.

Andy Sewell

London Probation Area

Probation Officer

An alternative approach to learning which means you can concentrate 100% on it for the whole day.

Jean Hogg

NSPCC South London Safer Communities Project

Child Protection Officer : Children's Services Practitioner

Very, very powerful, engaged with you from the onset. Non threatening involvement of the attendees. Excellent, appropriate and understandable.

Cheryl Vaughan

Berkshire Women's Aid

Child Support Co-ordinator

Brilliant, very different and will hold your attention to the very end. Well done to everyone involved.

 

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